I know that there's a million different Havel Mom builds out there, but this one is super Try Hard. You have both the Horny Ring and the Flip Hop Ring (You can't be more TryHard than that). With 54 poise and some descent Health, you should be able to tank most hits to fish your backstabs with your (Lightning +5) Great Club on those casuals. Make sure you two hand that sucka too. The nipple shield is there just for show and don't forget to spam that Black Flames on your foes.
This is how you should use this build. The video is called "I'll backstab the world and spam black flames on you"
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ML_d9cM0GUY" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">www.youtube.com/watch?v=ML_d9cM0GUY</a>