Notes from author
(golem is left-handed.) If you need to, be sure to switch your axe to right hand, mid-fight. I'd recommend large upper body physique, to look more like a boss. If you want light rolls, equip havel's and 96 endurance. If you want a lower level, try havel's and 40 endurance. If you can't handle med rolls or high levels, this build is not for you.
Use your dark hand to simulate his punches and grab. If the battle gets tough and you don't want to stick to the cosplay, switch the axe to right hand and use your shield. I'd recommend hosting, especially if you want high endurance, and it lets you look normal. Maybe try a talisman and emit force, IDK. Make sure to get prostration gesture, and if the fight is going well (or not), lose your balance and fall down.