I put an extra 2 pts in strength to be able to use the halberd (or the Moonlight GS) you can get 9 extra damage by putting those in dex also if you only want 3 spell slots start as pyro and you can get an extra 2 points in vit or so. other things to consider would be no shield and getting up to 76 poise with the wolf ring and mixing up the amour a bit.